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Scripture:

Proverbs 11:16: “A kindhearted woman gains honor, but ruthless men gain only wealth.” 

Proverbs 31:26-31: “She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: ‘Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.’ Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.”

Reflection:

The wisdom found in Proverbs 11:16 and Proverbs 31:26-31 beautifully illustrates the virtues that define a godly woman. These verses emphasize the profound impact of kindness, wisdom, and diligence—qualities that are not only commendable but transformative. We eagerly anticipate seeing women embody these virtues and Christ-like character at the Ina’ilau Women Conference in May 24-26, 2024.

The Power of Kindness

Proverbs 11:16 states that “a kindhearted woman gains honor.” Kindness is a powerful force that goes beyond the pursuit of wealth and status. It mirrors the character of Christ, who demonstrated immense compassion and love throughout His ministry. A kindhearted person leaves a lasting legacy, earning respect and admiration that wealth alone can never achieve.

Wisdom and Faithful Instruction

Proverbs 31:26 emphasizes the importance of wisdom and faithful instruction. A woman who speaks with wisdom and provides faithful teaching offers guidance and support to those around her. This wisdom is not merely intellectual but deeply spiritual, rooted in a reverent relationship with God. Such a woman becomes a beacon of light in her community, her words and actions reflecting the wisdom of God.

Diligence and Responsibility

The passage continues to highlight the diligence of this woman: “She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness.” Her attentiveness and industrious nature ensure that her household runs smoothly. This diligence is a form of stewardship, honoring God by managing the responsibilities entrusted to her. In our lives, we are called to be diligent in our duties, whether in our homes, workplaces, or communities, reflecting God’s faithfulness in our daily tasks. It seems God has called women to lead the way in this aspect of our lives.

Blessings and Praise

The culmination of these virtues is seen in the blessings and praise she receives: “Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her.” A life lived in kindness, wisdom, and diligence brings about recognition and honor from those closest to us. It is a testament to the lasting impact of a life dedicated to God’s principles. The praise she receives is not just for her actions but for the heart and spirit that drive those actions.

Eternal Values

Finally, the passage reminds us that “charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” In a world often obsessed with outward appearances, these verses refocus our attention on what truly matters: a heart that fears and honors the Lord. This reverence for God is the foundation upon which all other virtues are built.

Prayer:

Lord, help us embody the virtues of kindness, wisdom, and diligence in our daily lives. May we strive to honor You in all we do, reflecting Your love and wisdom to those around us. Grant us the strength to be diligent in our responsibilities and the humility to provide faithful instruction. Let our lives testify to Your grace and truth, earning honor from hearts devoted to You. Bless the upcoming Ina'ilau Conference. Amen.